Ever get a case of bedroom déjà vu? Once you discover a few no-fail tricks for touching her vagina and bringing her to orgasm, it’s hard not to fall into a sexual routine.
So save your signature skills for the grand finale and experiment with these 10 ways to touch her hu-ha.
1. Open her hood.There’s a little flap of skin that covers her clitoris when she’s not fully aroused—and it’s begging to be played with.
The clitoral hood is actually an extension of the inner lips, It can be its own feel-good spot.
[READ: Best Sex Positions That Will Help Her Climax Faster]Early on in your encounter—before she’s gotten so turned on that her hood retracts—give the hot spot aon her vagina a little love: Trace her inner labia upwards until you find the fold just above her clitoris, and stroke it with your fingertips, making sure your digits are sufficiently slick with lube.
When she’s ready for direct clitoral contact, you can use your thumb to push that skin up a little bit toward her belly button.
2. Find her G-spot.When it comes to G-spot stimulation, most guys know one classic technique: Insert a finger inside her vagina, palm up, and use a come-hither movement to stimulate her. But what if that doesn’t work?
Don’t give up your search for her hidden pleasure zone just yet.
The G-spot is not necessarily right in the middle of that front wall [of the vagina].
It might be a little more to one side or a little lower.
[READ: Unbelievable Sex Positions You've Never Heard of and Need to Try Them In Your Lifetime] Her advice: Using at least two fingers, massage as much of the region as you can comfortably reach and make sure she’s already wet before you work your way in.
If she’s excited, the area is a little raised and rough. If she’s not aroused enough, it’s going to be almost impossible to find.
3. Cup her vagina.Her outer labia may not be as sensitive as the rest of her lady parts and that means it’s a prime place to start when you’re warming her up for an orgasm.
When you’re making out, slip a hand down south and simply cup her vagina, pressing lightly. “This starts the blood flow and begins the process of arousal. It’s a gentle way to bring her into the experience.
4. Give her a massage.Before you part the outer lips of her vagina, give them a little attention.
Touching the outer labia isn’t going to stimulate the clitoris in the same way the inner lips do, because they’re not connected.
That said, taking your time before touching her clit can do wonders for her arousal so press her labia majora between your thumb and index finger, rubbing back and forth with a gentle massaging motion, then gently tug her lips upward.
If she doesn’t shave, you can even lightly pull at her pubic hair.
5. Circle her hot spot.As tempting as it is to race to her clitoris, tease her a little before touching down.
First, apply a little lube. Hint: simply dip a digit into her vagina to the padded part of your finger, and circle her clitoris, applying a firm, consistent pressure.
The circling motion is one of the most popular with women during masturbation.
6. Caress her cervix.If your girlfriend prefers deep penetration, she probably enjoys the sensation of cervical contact and your penis isn’t the only part of your body that can reach it.
When she’s excited, the cervix does pull back some.
[READ: Top 25 tips that will Leave Him Addicted to you ]But the typical vagina is not that long. So insert your finger until you can’t go any further, and gently massage her cervix, applying more pressure only if she responds with pleasure.
It can be really, really sensitive, so try it gently.
7. Re-angle her body.Stick with your standard way of stimulating her the one that really gets her going but switch up the position.
It will feel different because a woman’s body is so supremely sensitive that these little shifts can be pretty dramatic to her. She’s also going to have a different emotional reaction to what you’re doing.
In other words, if she’s normally lying on her back when you get her off with an orgasm, trying the same technique on all fours can feel more animalistic.
So get creative: Have her lean against a wall, bend over the kitchen counter, or stand up straight then execute the move she loves best.
8. Stimulate her vaginal opening.Unless you’re a high-school boy, you’ve learned by now that fingering a woman just gliding in and out doesn’t do much for her.
But that doesn’t mean hands-off altogether: Use two or three fingers to work your way in and out, but make sure you’re not just going up and down firmly rub against the lower vaginal canal.
You can even linger in the opening of her vagina, moving your fingers in a circular motion, without ever taking them out completely.
[READ: Top 17 Signs She Loves You for Sure! ]Most of the nerve endings are in the lower third of her vagina. Women like to feel really full at the opening.
9. Let her lead the way.Watching her masturbate is the ultimate way to learn what she likes but that level of vulnerability can be pretty intimidating for some women.
So put her hand on top of yours, and try this line: “Show me what you like, baby.” Do this in a sexy way not an ‘I’m confused, help me out,’ kind of way.
Let her guide your hand and be sure to make mental notes along the way to her orgasm.
10. Hit her clitoris from all sides.The classic side-to-side, up-and-down stimulation is undeniably awesome and an almost surefire way to make her climax with an orgasm.
But that’s really only hitting a portion of her clitoris.
We suggest lightly pinching it, then rubbing it in a circular motion between your fingers, as if you were wadding up a piece of gum. That way, you’re touching her hot spot from all angles, while also applying pressure.
It’s the recipe for an amazing orgasm.
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